It has been the most challenging days and week for me and it does cause me to be in uncertainty. But nevertheless I still keep myself part of the existence of this blog ie Remy Ishak and Tiz Zaqyah. Ever since rumours spread by unduly gossipers and the eagerness of fanatic fans together with the nosy reporters RITZ been in limelight since 14th February 2012 for the launch of “Cinta Kura-Kura”. Although not reading the news myself, I saw the headlines in the newspaper and again gossipers in cari forum together with the fanatics of Tiz Zaqyah voicing their bitterness and pointing fingers to Remy Ishak for not coming clean in defending the statement made by Tiz and his sight of story.
I’ll give it a heavy sigh to the mentality of our readers and people. To make things worst few of Tiz status in her facebook prior to the premiere has a triggering factor about the reporters, fans and media behaviour coincide with Whitney Houston death. I dare say the reporters are so nosy and the fans are so obsess with Tiz Zaqyah until they reach the level of only reading the status but does not able to imply or interprate the “brain” of Tiz.
Instead of Cinta Kura-Kura the reporters choose to highlight and focus more on RITZ and all the fanatics are now angry because Remy did not appear in any of the interviews, be by Tiz side to give his statement. Maybe all this people are suggesting RITZ make a press conference. To my opinion if we are wise enough to think, is it Tiz fault or Remy’s fault their relationship become the highlight of the evening instead of “Cinta Kura-Kura” and why do we become so obsess with the thought of Remy needs to give his statement? It is Cinta Kura-Kura première and Tiz is playing the role of Nani in that movie and the female leading role. When all the buzz is all over her relationship with Remy highlighted in all major newspaper the camp of Tiz Zaqyah can’t sit still and start the drama of pointing fingers to Remy. I asked myself many question and try to look into this matter of perception.
To help me in my findings I found a write-up about food for thought and few of my question answered in this.
I do hope to the fanatics of Remy and Tiz camp would eventually be realistic in their so-called accusations or interpretation of situation and issues.
Did she choose to be there and waited the press to ask about her personal relationship?
Why is it matter for Remy be at the première? Are they husband and wife? Are they now at least engaged for Remy to give his statement?
What different will it make if Remy be there? What buzz will RITZ be created? Will the fans and fanatic happy with Remy statement. The nature of human being is always our wants exceed our needs.
Will Remy appearance make a full stop?
The reporters choose to highlight RITZ love affairs instead of the work of Tiz Zaqyah and fanatics becomes emotional and undeniable angry about it.Why should we? Why did the fanatic is so obsess in blaming Remy? Did we ever ask ourselves, are we any different from the REPORTERS or MEDIA?
There is no hard and fast rules of the “rule of the thumb” but again look into mirror and see who is the image of the reflection?
I am very sad and rather depress to know the fans of Tiz Zaqyah and Remy Ishak is totally involved in their personal life instead of supporting their career. In one of those interviews Remy did say to give them space and respect their privacy but what happened is otherwise. The fans are now pointing fingers and saying how lucky is Remy to have such an angelic girlfriend defending and answering all the questions bravely and alone. It is more depressing to know they are so obsess with Tiz Zaqyah as though she is the goddess.
Grow up people…get life.
Happy week ahead and fill our mind and thought with a good nutrients. Pleasant week ahead dear readers and friends. Maybe we all have a bless life. Do take care.
My love to Remy and Tiz, show them darling THE POWER OF LOVE
Life is a Matter of Perception – 20 Tips for an Amazing Life
By Stephen Hopson
A former award-winning Wall Street stockbroker turned speaker, author and the first deaf pilot in the world to earn an instrument rating; Stephen Hopson teaches others how to transform adversity into success.
Over the years, I’ve learned a thing or two about life. I am a firm believer that everything is a matter of perception. It’s not what happens to you that matters but what you do about it that determines the final outcome.
Today I thought I’d take a break from storytelling and give a list of things I’ve learned in the last 40 years.
See if they resonate with you …
It’s not what happens to you but how you perceive it that determines how you will deal with the situation.
Behind every difficult person you meet, there’s a lesson to be learned.
Instead of saying, “Why is this happening to me, you say, “What can I learn from this?”
Trust that everything in life is temporary and that going through different cycles is part of the process. Translation: Life will get better if you just have enough faith to get through this one.
We all have a divine blueprint for our lives – there is a such a thing as destiny and it’s up to us to discover what it is through our innermost passions.
The power of visualization cannot be ignored – it actually works! Don’t say it doesn’t work until you’ve tried it in earnest. Have you truly visualized yourself having or doing something?
God is your partner in life, let Him in and let him co-create things with you.
Without adversity or life’s challenges, we would never know what we are truly made of. It is through the toughest times we learn what we’re capable of doing; thereby becoming stronger and more confident in the process.
Everything you’ve experienced in life has been in preparation for what’s to come later in life. In fact, you are “life’s perpetual trainee.”
Learn to trust and pay attention to your intuition — those “AHA” moments — they are often right on the nose.
There are no accidents. Everyone you meet, everything that has come your way was not an some random fluke.
Plan on making a fool of yourself and not take life or yourself so seriously – even God has a sense of humor. (i.e. Tell him your plans!)
Go crazy and send handwritten thank you notes to those who have helped you. Gratitude and positive energy attracts success, abundance and more of what you’re thankful for.
Be patient – you will be rewarded justly. Don’t bother seeking revenge – it isn’t worth it.
Know that you are making a difference in small and large ways by just being who you are.
Refuse to compromise your integrity. People can see right through you and can detect whether you’re genuine or not. If you truly care about your customers, friends, family or business associates, they’ll stick with you through high and low because they know you care about them. In other words, they don’t care what you know until they know you care about them.
Fear is misdirected energy and must be redirected into faith.
Refuse to compare your progress with others. It will only serve to destroy your confidence. Everyone is at different stages in their lives and if you understand that you’re right where you’re supposed to be, then it won’t matter what others are doing. You are unique with special qualities, talents, skills and thought processes, etc. There is no one like you so how can you compare yourself to others?
If you haven’t failed enough in life, you haven’t risked much. Life without taking adventurous risks is downright dangerous.
Understand that you do matter – there is a purpose to your life – find out what it is and use your gifts to make a difference.
Compiled by : Sanaa 19/02/2012